Healing is about changing your perspective on what is possible. You're limited judgement brought on your suffering in the first place. If you aren't willing to see things differently, then you will remain fixated on your current state and you will carry this with you until you decide otherwise. If you decide to carry this legacy of pain with you, it will convolute the matrix of your being. How you perceive yourself will become distorted and so the way you interpret sense data will be incongruent to the reality. Under this pyshio-emotional condition, your reactions may be also be falsely asserted upon others. This infects them with the same mind parasite you suffer from.
You must become aware of your tendency to react in order to re-calibrate your nervous system to the environment. Violence at any level is the result of emotions not being properly digested, accepted and discharged. Your stories are merely holding patterns that prevent you from doing so. This is the basis for trauma energetics.
It must also be reinforced that as long as one remains in a state of healing, that individual will continue to remain constricted from doing their work. Healing is just as much a crutch as an addiction to a substance. Once you allow yourself to change you must move swiftly to a new idea. You are to shed the ways of the old and don't look back! We don't steer the boat by looking at the wake.
Yet some people don't want to heal. They would rather hold on to their wounds and talk about their past because this is familiar to them. It grounds them to something they can hold onto. If they are accepted by others, then they can be accepted by the whole of society. The irony is everyone feels this way. No one wants to be judged. Everyone wants to be accepted.
Those who succeed crucify themselves to their fear. They represent themselves honestly without worry that their peers will judge them. In my conscious exploration here on this planet, I work to be one of those people. I do not fear upsetting those who refrain from practicing the conscious awareness work necessary in order to self realize their tendency to react to information when it brings up uncomfortable emotions.
If we are to defeat codependency in the polarity process of reality, we must all be the mirror to each other and not supplicate ourselves for someone else's comfort. You are not capable of that anyway. The suffering they are experiencing is due to their own lack of awareness and your notion that you can change that for them is your own dis-ease and lack of understanding.
Someone else's reaction to the information you present is never your responsibility, no matter who it is, no matter what the content of the message. You are only responsible for clearing your own negative charges so stop putting it off and get to work!
With that said, it may be clear to you now that telling others to "wake up" is self-defeating. If you were "awake" you would already understand that your suffering, and all the reasons you concocted to prevent yourself from changing, were your creations and thus, your responsibility to correct by becoming right-minded. We become right-minded by realizing we created it all and if we created it, we can change it because change is what we are!
By remaining in mourning and hesitating to make adjustments we abide by fear and we hold on to our emotional poison. The result of this fear will reveal more attempts by government to control the populace. In fact, we created government as a result of denying our innate power to use our own free will to govern ourselves. If our relationship to government isn't sustainable, we can change it by embracing a new idea.
Control is the opposite of change which is a movement and there must be movement in order for there to be health. We must move through times of difficulty by allowing it to pass. This is why our interpretation of a feeling is called an eMOTION. There is no threat present when you are simply having a feeling when it is merely a sensation. It's the interpretation of it that creates human drama. Like all things, it will recede if you allow it to express itself fully.
This too shall pass!
This is the true function of comparison in society and how we define culture which shapes our moralistic outlook on consensual purpose. We relate to each other so that we can witness the effects of our behaviour on one another and to test the sustainability of our creations in order to make adjustments. In order to make adjustments though, we must face our failures and embrace the unknown. Most importantly, we must remember to be gentle with ourselves and others as it will take time for the cultivation of this new intention to rise...
It will rise.
And so it is!
- Joey The Bioenergist